Others temporarily make something a higher priority than a relationship, such as a family obligation, education, project, or a health concern. Secrecy, evasiveness, or inappropriate questions too soon about money or sex, for example, indicate a hidden agenda and unwillingness to allow a relationship to unfold. Once the relationship gets real, they’ll sabotage it. Most people reveal their emotional availability early on. Right, yet is emotionally unavailable, you’re left with nothing but pain. If so, you may need to heal from past wounds before you’re comfortable getting close to someone. However, marriage or couples counseling can change the relationship dynamics and help you to have a more fulfilling intimate relationship.
They’re evasive, make excuses, or just inept when it comes to talking about feelings or the relationship.
Individuals who are interested in building a relationship will invite you to do fun things.
They will take you to the movies, make dinner reservations, and go hiking with you on Sunday.
Are you pouring your heart and soul into making your relationship work and sense that you are not getting the same in return?
We have all played the tedious game whereby we swoon and fall for the perfect man, bend over backwards to get him to notice you, and realize too little too late that he is completely unavailable emotionally.