This idea that when they fix, heal, and help themselves and realise the potential you’ve projected on them, that YOU will suddenly feel wonderful is BS.It takes more than him changing for you to be happy and in believing this you place all of the responsibility on an external party for your happiness.) Here are a handful of excellent take-aways that I want you to internalize ASAP, so you will no longer waste time on another dead-end guy: 1.Being emotionally unavailable doesn’t mean he’s dead.I can’t tell you every girl’s personal preference, so I’ll just tell you what you need to know to make sure you never find yourself in the middle of a girl’s turn off zone!#1 Insecure personalities One of the biggest turn offs for women is a guy who’s insecure about himself.If you’re not confident about yourself or are feeling nervous, trust me, it shows. If you aren’t happy being who you are, what are the odds that the girl you’re with would like your company?This is one of the biggest reasons why guys get spurned on a date. Some guys have a great positive aura around themselves and some guys are just plain nervous and scared.
And which guy on earth actually knows all the ingredients of that perfect sugar and spice blend?!But whether it’s making hay in the rain or just wanting to know how to impress women, the biggest turn offs for women are all the same.Now, some women like big hands and some like small things.It also doesn’t mean we’ve lost the ability to perceive attractiveness and beauty and it most definitely doesn’t mean we’re no longer interested in sex.We will want all of those things, and we’re still going to work toward getting all of those things. Maybe it was our overt actions (not claiming you as a girlfriend). Maybe it was our actual words (I’m not looking for anything serious right now), but you didn’t pay attention.