Are you into or do you have an interest in the following?
Discipline • Dominatrix • Control • Cuckold • CBT • Foot Worship • Discipline • Pegging • Slave • Rope Play • Pain • shibari • rubber fetish • spanking • Pet Play Have you tried, or do you want to experience any of the below?
The biggest fetish/BDSM community, fetlife, isn't a dating site and there is not a search engine designed to find matches. I'm young, fit, everything good, but I don't know where to advertise myself where my type of women will see me.
Try Collarspace.com, large dating site, and Fetlife.com, the latter will give you information about local events as well , amongst other things.
How do you meet people that are interested in BDSM and want to make real connections?
Meeting other people just like you who are interested in BDSM dating isn't a problem anymore. With Fetster it's easy to find people who are looking to explore relationship dynamics that are new and exciting.
be polite, and friendly, like you would be if you were to meet someone at a party. They make me hate myself more than anything, no one ever messages you.
Don't just go "hey i want this and that, and you are sub, so you have to give it to me. Your search results with collarspace are limited to say the least, and there are plenty of scammers there.
Butt kissing is easy, making yourself interesting is a challenge.
Just remember that BDSM is about consent between both parties, and there should always be respect for your opinion and thoughts.
“An object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion” or “an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression” is how Merriam-Webster defines the word fetish.
Drop outs often occur in the chat room through associated connectivity problems and are just a fact of using the internet, they occur to us all. Below are just some ideas and suggestions, you can take or leave them, that's up to you. (Yes, guy subs, I'm talking to YOU) The only people you impress are those who have been on line dominants for less than an hour or the Dommes who got their idea of D/s from internet fantasy fodder.
If you yourself outside the chat room just re log in. Real life Dommes are much more impressed to find out that you have a brain, can hold a polite conversation, and have a few manners.